I am at the point where i just lay in bad all day and overthink while also accompanied by severe anxiety symptoms such as nausea, shortness of breath or lightheadedness. Im 16 years old virgin i know theres nothing wrong with me physically but i couldnt get it up my first time due to excessive alcohol and now i just feel helpless and awkward. I am nervous for the next time im going over and what if I cant get it up at all not only for sex but for any intimacy? Even this thought of failure frightens me so much. Someone please help me
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Hi there,
My name is Jordan and I’m the head of member support at Mojo. I appreciate you taking the time to share your experience, and I’m really sorry to hear you are going through such a rough time. I would like to assure you though that you are really not alone in this experience, and it is very common for alcohol to impair your ability to get an erection. While it can be very disheartening, it is a very normal experience that most men will experience at some point in their life, and so I feel confident in saying you will be able to overcome this.
The team and I also noticed that you said you are 16 right now, and I’m afraid that Mojo can only support people who are aged 18+. That means, unfortunately, that if we become aware an account belongs to someone under 18, we do have to delete the account. This is to ensure we don’t give the wrong sort of help to someone who might need more dedicated, specialized support.
You can still view the community website here without logging in, and if an adult were to make another account, that might be a way to access useful content with their guidance.
Thank you for your time and best of luck. I’m sure you’ll smash this
Jordan - Head of Customer Support