No matter how much work I put on here to improve I feel like it’s all in vain. My gf doesn’t trust that I’m doing it and right before we even attempt to have sex she claims I don’t want to and would rather masterbate to porn. I have nearly eliminated this habit and am working hard to improve but to her it all sounds like bs. I really love her but am thinking it’s time to let go and move on. As I cannot continue to see improvement if she continues to berate me for my past inadequacies.
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She is probably having her own problems.
I’d quit the relationship ship straight away. What’s the point of being with someone who makes you feel unhappy while there are so many other opportunities out there.
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I agree! I am in a similar situation with someone who I am not compatible with. She’s attractive, but she’s so negative and problematic. Im done with her:) life is about being happy, and if someone is dragging that down, kick em to the curb! Find someone who is a muse.
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How about having an honest conversation with her? Show how you’re improving, tell her you don’t like her comments, tell her how much better sex is with her, . After that, you’ve stated your case and can decide if break up is the right solution. An honest conversation about how YOU ARE FEELING and not making accusations could help. Good luck bud you’ve got this