I’m 24 y/o healthy man, I’ve had sex with my gf before but sometimes I worry that I won’t get hard because for the first three months we were dating I couldn’t get hard and she almost left me. I’ve had the problem where I don’t get hard for the first 1-3 times with my old gf’s but after that it was smooth sailing and never had the problem. With my current new gf we’ve been having sex for a few months now but the last 2 weeks I’ve been overthinking and worrying that I won’t get hard. And then I don’t. And she thinks it’s happening all over again and gives up on trying because she thinks it will be a waste of time and I won’t get hard. I explain this has never been an on going issue for me and it’s all new… I’m incredibly attracted to her and we’ve talked about it but I worry that the next time we try to have sex again I won’t get hard and she will get mad at me for wasting her time…
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Focus on boosting your arrousal meditation series. You are still in the begining of the anxiety cycle , you need to stop it now, 24 y okd your libido is super high, you are healthy, believe in you body not your mind. Good luck.
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