I am new to the app. My wife and I are at a pretty low point right now both in our 40s with 2 kids. Trying to find a way through and to make some lasting changes to our lives. She says we have always been sexualy incompatible mainly to do with frequency. She doubts a lot of what I say as whenever we make up we revert back to normal. I do have some sexual anxiety I think down to past experiences of freezing or just coming too quickly. Feel quite lost right now any advice would be appreciated. Thanks