After not having intercourse for 7 years I have met a partner that is hyper sexual. I constantly worry about not being able to please her during sex. I am able to get an erection and then my anxiety takes it away. It is close to ruining our relationship.
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How’s your oral and finger game??
I know you wanna F her good… For me seeing and feeling her get off a few times before I try to f her sets me up pretty good. It calms me down because I’ve already got her off a couple times and sex to her is just icing on the cake.
Exactly the same situation. We have started arguing almost once a week now, and it’s about the same issue. I get hard and as soon as I put my penis inside I start thinking im gonna lose my erection and guess what: I do.
You’re not alone. New relationship after a pretty sex-less 8 year relationship. I’m finding it difficult to perform every time we see each other. It’s literally a dream come true, but a nightmare unfolding when I can’t do it
I’ve had similar, I would say Use the mental exercises here to get out of your head and avoid spectatoring. Talk to your partner not just about your issue but about what you’re doing about it. Use the tongue and fingers as the other poster suggested. A little blue or yellow pill might help.