Anyone else experiencing low sexual arousal and desires due to an experience that triggered performance anxiety. For me it was not being able to get it up on a one night stand that just led to constant thoughts about not being able to get it up now. This has made me a bit scared of sex and led to lower desire and finding women less sexually attractive. Anyone else had this?
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Yeah, for sure. It’s difficult to get out of that slump. But I would try and remind yourself that your erection problems are not indicative of your desire or arousal generally, but a product of anxiety or some kind of mental block. The capacity for desire is still within you.
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Going through it right now, you’re not alone