Love sucks, met this girl last year, she was on exchange in my uni. We had great times together, my first love. We went on holiday when we finished college. It was great. Sex was great, no issues. She went back home and basically said we’re done without saying it. We were texting regularly for a good few months but I can see her interest dropping, shits depressing. I’ve had a few sexual encounters, none that good though. I just find my mind just goes to her having sex w someone else. I thought I was getting over her but now I’m more depressed. Her life is much more interesting. I know comparisons the thief of joy but ya fuck, got more friends and more shit going on. She’s probably seeing someone else already. Now I’m having doubts about my performance, I didn’t get it up the last times after her, tbf I was quite drunk but ah I don’t know. I should be positive but I’m finding it hard. I miss her a lot. Ya that was my rant, it’s easy to say it anonymously than to people I know, they’ll just say you got to move on, but what if she was the one.
All normal feelings brother. Sounds like you’re still young, I know it’s really hard and you’re heartbroken but we learn and develop through these experiences. Nothing I can say will take your pain away in this moment but you just gotta feel your feels and hang in there while you go through it. It does get better. Sharing in this forum is a smart move and shows that you’re trying to heal, I believe you’ll get there, keep at it. Wishing you the best
I agree. It feels like the worst feeling when you’re going through it but sharing your thoughts/feelings here is a good step. Also look into starting a new hobby you wanna try or restarting something you still enjoy that you didn’t have time for before. That’ll help keep you occupied but productive as well as you can use it as an outlet. Good luck man
Thanks guys, I’ll get there