Been having erection issues for the better part of two years been with my girlfriend for the same amount of time and my sex life has been pretty miserable after cheating on my ex girlfriend my ex really beat me up about it and it killed my self esteem fast forward moved on learned to be faithful and control my impulses now I can’t keep my dick up the whole breakup ordeal really did a number on me and while mojo has helped a bit I bust fast more than ever and when I try to incorporate the kegels and stop myself from cumming I stop the cum but at the expense of my erection I’ve only been able to cum and stay hard 1 time me and my current girlfriend had sex when that was a easy thing to do in the past. I’m only 24 years old I always been an avid porn watcher and masturbate frequently but I never had a problem except after my breakup I just want to have normal sex again and count on my dick like I used to I’m getting tired of this. Mojo is helping but I feel like I’ll never get back the same effortless erections like I could I can only say “sorry babe your pussy is so good so many times. I’m relatively healthy I eat chipotle damn near everyday workout when I can. I masturbate a lot probably everyday with the exception of a day or two every other week to give it a break. I’m at my wits end. Am I watching too much porn? Have I not forgiven myself for cheating on my ex? Has performance anxiety taken such a deep root in me? I don’t know I can recognize my inner critic now but it’s still ever present because it feels like nothing is changing. I need help
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