So, it’s still very new to me, but the few activities I have done on Mojo have really opened my eyes on why I lose my erection when my partner and I are ready for penetrative sex. For some reason, my inner critic kicks in and just pushes me into a cycle of thoughts working against me and my confidence.
Putting words on it has changed the way I look at it, and whenever I lose my erection, instead of getting frustrated and losing control, I now understand what’s happening and I find ways to get out of my head and back into the room. I talk to my partner, I explain what I want, what would turn me on, I focus on non-penetrative pleasures, and I just focus on my partner and not on my soft cock anymore… and guess what? My erection comes back, and I could consider penetrative sex again! (Not that it is mandatory, but it’s great to be an option).
Yesterday night was a huuuuge milestone for me, as I did all that, and was able to get back in the game with a rock hard erection all the way to the end, and it felt amaaazing.
Thank you mojo and this amazing community for allowing me to put words on what I couldn’t understand. This has helped me so much.
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Man that’s dope! I just joined this app two days ago. I’ve been a long time PED sufferer and I like the fact that when I read comments from the community like yours, it’s like I’m reading about myself. It feels good to know I’m not alone. Glad are having positive results. I have major problems with my inner critic. I hope to be able to post a success story soon.
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Oh brother that’s a great story!!!
Nice work man!!!
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Class brother! What methods/exercises did you find helped you the most?
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To be honest it’s pretty much an overall experience throughout the activities that I have done on Mojo so far. Wether it was the inner critic or the soft penis masturbation, all of these activities have helped me put words on what I wasn’t able to express before. I used to just get frustrated and anxious when my cock went soft… now I’m just refocusing my energy on my partner instead of thinking of my soft cock, because I understand that it’s just a natural phase in the whole process. By changing my mindset, and refocusing what I’m doing, I am able to get out of my head, not be so anxious anymore, and I’m actually still smiling while I lose my erection, because it will come back!
Anyway, I’m not sure it’s the best answer, but it’s an honest one. I just love the fact that I can put words on all of this.
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I’m glad my story helps! It is indeed great to read success stories… that’s why I posted mine. I love to read the stories of other guys like me, that were just lost and anxious each time they see their cock go soft while getting ready for penetrative sex, or when at the peak of their pleasure.
I can’t wait to read your success story! I’ll enjoy it as much as it was my own success 