When getting down to it I’m usually hard the whole time during foreplay. As soon as I pull my pants down and get ready to penetrate my erection starts to go.
I’m not in a vicious cycle of reading success stories and searching is masturbation is the problem for me.
I haven’t watched porn in some time now maybe like two weeks, I used to watch it maybe 3-4 times a week. I know only masturbate using my own imagination or the use of erotic stories on the app.
But every time I climax I feel this massive sense on anxiety that I’ve ruined my chances of getting hard with my girlfriend. I’m not even masturbating to porn, just focusing on the sensations I feel when playing with myself.
I’ve been told that mastication is normal and doesn’t cause ED. Any help?
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Its not masterbation, it could be porn and anxiety aswell as lifestyle choices
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I could be wrong but it sounds like anxiety linked to the act of sex, I lose it as soon as it comes out because the pressure is on. Also you thinking that masturbating is going to ruin your chances of getting hard is probably creating more anxiety, it’s the worry surrounding it as opposed to masturbating itself. I had similar issues and I realise it was mostly in my head. Hope this helps 
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Personally I don’t think masturbation is the problem as long as you’re not doing it in a rough and quick way. Following advice from this app, i’ve found that masturbating slowly and mindfully fairly often helps maintain desire and arousal generally.
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I have the exact same issues. I’m hard during foreplay, and as soon as I pull my or her pants down it goes away and all the pressure comes in. I usually don’t have a problem masturbating, unless I think about it. If I think “I’m going to masturbate to see if I can get hard and it’s all ok” I have a hard time getting and maintaining an erection. But if I just masturbate because I’m horny it’s all fine…
Same. I’m trying to focus on what’s in front of me: a hot woman that wants to have some fun, please me & be pleased!!
I’m also working on visualizing me having a decent erection and a past positive sexual encounter.
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