I have always had a very hard time finishing during intercourse, even though I stay hard all the way through. Lately I can’t even cum masturbating, which would always take me about 5 minutes. What could this be about?
It can sometimes take a bit of time to work out why there is a problem of delayed ejaculation. It is important to rule out any medical reasons. Often it can be an unconscious anxiety - sometimes childhood worries about masturbating, fear of getting someone pregnant, finding it hard to get into your body and out of your head, difficulty relaxing? Mojo will help you understand what is going on, take your time and the mindfulness and relaxation will be helpful. : )