I just have an epiphany

This morning, I woke up with a thought that I couldn’t get my mind around it, where my ago would no let me accept it, because always has been “your a man and you have to be ready to perform as a man that you are, always ready just with a single eye contact and you have to please your woman” and that’s how I view sex and I couldn’t understand why was so hard to please a woman and never thought about my pleasure, I even told my ex that I did not care about my because if I kept thrusting eventually I will come, I always thought ejaculate was the only pleasure a man is allowed to have and I came to realize there’s a lot to sex other than penetration

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Nice work!!
I’m slowly allowing myself pleasure again. For the longest time I focused on my partner only. After a divorce I’m realizing my pleasure counts too! For many reasons I have not finished anywhere but my hand in years. This gave me deathgrip. I’m working through it with my gf, who’s been super supportive! Still have some bridges to cross, but it’s getting better!
Great to hear your breakthrough!!
Good luck man!!!:four_leaf_clover:

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