I get more aroused from porn than from my wife

I find myself unable to get an erection while trying to be intimate with my wife, but I have little issue getting one while watching porn. I fear my wife is feeling like I don’t find her sexy or that I’m not attracted to her.

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yea quit porn my bro & follow the exercise it actually works. sensation and soft penis pleasuring

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Exactly the same my friend - that’s why I’m here! I think we have to kick the porn habit - easier said than done!

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I am exactly the same. The only way I could confidently have sex was with Viagra. No inner critic then as I believed it would work (and chemically it does). But watching porn I can get rock hard. I watch a lot and masturbate a couple of times a day. I know it’s psychological so I’m going to put all my energy into this program to learn new, healthier habits. Good luck bro

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What worked for me was to find one thing about my wife that turned me on and focus on that. The more I focused on the thing about her that turned me on the more I started noticing other things about her that were arousing. I also talked to my wife about it openly, and let her know it was not her, it was something I needed to work on. It took some practice but it worked for me. We are more intimate now than ever before.

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I’ve been there - porn is definitely a bad influence in my situation too - working from home and having “time on my hands”, then not having libido left when my wife is home.

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