I’m 23, young, fit, healthy and good looking with an above average penis. People assume I got great experience and partners too so I always feel disappointed in myself due to ED and never climaxing. I’m sure is psychological but I get hard at foreplay and blowjobs too. But as soon as I’m about to have sex it starts dying. I panic and it gets works I’ve never really climaxed with someone usually got to jerk myself off to climax. Tried quitting porn but not much of a difference just the stress makes me last longer too. I don’t want to have sex continually till I’m out of breath and muscle fatigue because of it. The question is should I take a pill to help me overcome fears of sex. I don’t want to be reliant on it so should I avoid it and be in this constant uphill battle for longer? Any tips to be more sensitive or what to think before sex?
I’m in the exact same situation. I’m very close in age to you as well. I understand how stressful it can be dealing with this. I’ve also considered using a pill to help. I’m going to give mojo at least a month before deciding on the pill. It’s so important to relax and attempt to get out of your head. I’ve been improving dramatically the past couple weeks with my new girlfriend. She is very understanding to everything which helps as well. Of course in the back of my mind I’m always a little worried about going soft once I grab the condom but I’m working on getting out of my head. Sex is supposed to be fun, so I’m treating it as so. No need to stress, everything will be alright and work out in the long term. Just attempt to relax and really enjoy the situation. Keep yourself in the moment and enjoy each other. I know soon I will be able to have sex without worry, so I continue to complete exercises on this app and read the forum daily. Hope this helps!
Sorry, I think I’m going to give bad advice and if anyone wants to contradict me please do so. I’m 43 and since your age I’ve had ED problems, it comes and goes let’s say. I think Mojo is an excellent tool to get to the root of the problem, but I’ve taken the pill just to give myself the assurance that everything will be fine and since your age. My experience has been that a few good sex sessions on the pill, my confidence increases and then I can fly solo. in summary go for it… enjoy sex, but work on the root of the problem too!
I am 42 and have taken vardenafil since 23 (like Viagra, but fewer side effects and still works when you’re drunk…). It changed my life but I’m extremely psychologically addicted to it now. Regular sex can’t compare any more. So taking something like that is awesome but you need to make sure it’s just to get confident with a girl you like, maybe even telling her you’re using it so when you try to “rip the bandaid off” it’s not this big pressure thing where she thinks something has changed/you’re no longer attracted to her etc (have lost several girls this way). Good luck!