I’m single, so I think it’s about getting comfortable with the fantasy aspect and not feeling guilty that I’m objectifying someone
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more with verbal ques
Leaning into being flirty without becoming too suggestive
Going to try to engage myself more throughout the day to let it simmer. On days I work, I’m gone longer and she waits for me to come home. Why not get her something more excited for when I come home? I’ll be reaching out more during down time, expressing how I miss her and would like to be around her, you know the things girls melt for. Actually giving a fuck about what they have to say goes a long way. I need to get more in the habit of doing that
She usually initiates our conversations on text, so I can signal my excitement to see her by being the first to text and letting her know that I’m thinking about her and can’t wait to see her.
Take the time to fantasize about women I see in the street or interact with.
I’m going to do it solo as a single person. I’ll probably think of a scene in a gym or something with fitness, as that turns me on like crazy.
I see really hot women at the gym when I’m climbing. I see nice back muscles. It’s just hot to see women climb and it’s arousing
I’m talking to this girl right now and I think it might be going somewhere, so I’m going to think about her, and hopefully as it progresses in real life I’ll feel ready
Hugs, eye contact light touch