Lots of soft, gentle touches. Reminding her how hot she is.
Initiating more contact, more physically flirty.
Physical touch & suggestive compliment
Flirty and sexy messages
Physical touch and texted compliments
Imagination for now sadly
Texting and perhaps sexting 
Remind myself I’m hot. Frequently.
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Texting sexy thoughts and focus on visualization
Texting compliments and passionate kisses
Imagination and fantasy and try bits of partner simmering with women I’m talking with and hoping to go further with
A more passionate morning goodbye kiss
When watching tv together sitting close to each other. Massaging her legs
Longer and more sensual kisses. Showing sexual attraction with body language and compliments
As I am single at the moment, I plan to focus of turn ons for a period and let the fantasy play out in my mind to a natural end. Then later on I will think about that fantasy again and build on it a little. I will repeat this whenever I notice or feel a turn on without leading to masturbation or trying to engage in sex whenever I can
That’s the problem with it. I can’t do this with my wife. Cuz my wife is physically distant all the time, which is as i was told one of the reasons she was cheated on repeatedly on an earlier marriage. I simply cannot keep heat going.
I’d like to kiss and cuddle my partner more often during the day, and send her more flirty messages whilst at work.
Offer and respond to more bids for connection with the girl I like. Be open to the idea of being close to her, not scared and closed off
Longer kisses when leaving and sending nice text messages during the day
Longer kisses and embraces. More compliments of her body