How do you plan to simmer?

I’m hoping more frequent and explicit txt

Texts throughout the day. Touching and kissing. Taps on her butt.

No idea, this just feels awkward

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Playful touching, longer kisses, telling them they are hot

Take away the pressure to have sex and just invite him into these practices

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I’ll be real, I’m tryna try out being completely celibate for 2 weeks so the idea of teasing myself is maddening :joy: might try after 2 weeks but honestly feels weird as an activity while single

I think we need to start being more spicy with out texting to build up the momentum

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I am so excited to try this. I kiss her everyday before work- but I think it’s time to up the ante. I’m looking forward to the little texts. Might try dressing in front of her too.

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Kicking off sexual convos with my girlfriend

Be more vocal with my simmering thoughts to my partner

By sending love messages throughout the day, walking her to her car to wish her well and kiss with passion and a warm embrace.

Putting on a “sexy voice” that she likes more during the day. We’re tease eachother a lot already so being more present in those moments

I’m going to start by sending a message in the morning and try to slide in a I really miss or want to see you. See where it goes

My girlfriend has no problems getting turned on. I’ve noticed days I’m in a good mood my libido is higher and days I’m stressed and anxious I have no libido. I just need to understand not to force it at times.

Add more of the verbal/messaging compliments

longer passionate kisses. noticing things about her that turn me on and holding those thoughts.

Yeah I plan to do both with a partner and solo

Solo dolo

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I’ll probably tell her about the idea and try to maybe get verbal confirmation on her turn-ons and see if she’s on board with trying to build that little bit of sexual tension during the day. I think think she will like the idea

I really like having sexually charged conversations with her before seeing her. It really builds up the anticipation