Try to always continue contact and kissing while i remove my clothes or do use a condom
Keeping the sexual flow going only seems to be an issue for me. It bothers me though if my partner seems distracted to brings up something random while we’re having sexy time.
When I get out of the sexual mojo after spectatoring and negative internal self talk I usually say to myself “Oh well, it happens”. I shift my focus to please my partner and just take it slow. When I get busy doing that, sometimes I rebound back into an erection.
Something that particularly turns me on personally is watching her masturbate while I put on my condom. I’ve resurrected some lost boners with this method and it hasn’t failed me yet.
Say something.
Taking charge makes my mind focus on her and that will often allow the self critic to silence.
Knowing the person helps, being more open with them
I definitely think finding a way to make putting a condom on part of foreplay rather than a separation from foreplay before sex would be a good idea. That would take pressure off that task.
Talking, touching, anything
Usually what helps me is to take a break if I lose my Erection and to just touch my partner and feel sensual feelings by hugging them or rubbing them. This usually allows me to know it’s okay with what just happened and then I will begin to touch her and come back to a sexual flow.
Not sure
Think about porn or past Successful sexual experiences
Focus on her and play with my penis until I get hard
I go down north n her until she cums and then go at intercourse
I can’t
It’s not
Just taking time to breath and reset
By doing different position.by talking dirty and wild things during sex.The sound she make
I think maybe being honest that I’m not ready to move to sex from foreplay, and that it just might not happen could help in taking the pressure of it away.
Kissing touching caressing and making love noises