Iām curious if anyone else has this issue.
Quite often Iām mentally in the mood to self pleasure or have sex, but I donāt actuslly feel aroused. And Iām not just talking about not having an erection. I mean my body is just not aroused, nor is it very receptive to becoming aroused through touch.
Itās like I just feel like Iām in the mood for it, but I just canāt turn myself on. Like the thought of touching myself doesnāt feel very appealing, and when I do, I donāt actually start feeling aroused, I just get kind of bored and I lose interest.
In the past, I would have watched some porn, which would sort of scratch the itch Iām feeling, to engage in or view something sexual, and it will normally get me turned on enough to e joy self pleasuring, but I really want to avoid using porn if I can. Iād much rather learn how to get myself aroused without it. I do also think this difficulty with getting aroused has a bit to do with my ED.
Iāve tried pleasuring myself (as mentioned), as well as audio erotica, and trying to use my imagination, but nothing really cuts it.