I think I’ve realised that it’s okay to have an urge to use porn, but that I need to make sure I have a healthy relationship and communication with my partner in regards to our sex life. I feel like we recently improved this by talking openly about what new things we wanted to try and trying them.
I don’t utilize visual porn too often. I have more often preferred written material. But maybe my avoidance or visual porn is from a place of judgement. Not that I want to introduce regular porn use, I might consider adding it in from time to time. Try something new or explore things I might enjoy. Maybe experience things that are fantasies that I would like to just be fantasies, at least for now.
I’m keeping off it mostly anyway, but if I’m stressed it’s good to release. Also so much anal sex on porn is making me want to try but it can’t be good for a woman can it?
I haven’t watched porn yet, but the idea of the long appeals to me, I can learn what I want & what I like through it
Been watching porn very sparingly. Sometimes I do get that urge though, will use the log to try to identify triggers.