I think I’ve realised that it’s okay to have an urge to use porn, but that I need to make sure I have a healthy relationship and communication with my partner in regards to our sex life. I feel like we recently improved this by talking openly about what new things we wanted to try and trying them.
I don’t utilize visual porn too often. I have more often preferred written material. But maybe my avoidance or visual porn is from a place of judgement. Not that I want to introduce regular porn use, I might consider adding it in from time to time. Try something new or explore things I might enjoy. Maybe experience things that are fantasies that I would like to just be fantasies, at least for now.
I’m keeping off it mostly anyway, but if I’m stressed it’s good to release. Also so much anal sex on porn is making me want to try but it can’t be good for a woman can it?
I haven’t watched porn yet, but the idea of the long appeals to me, I can learn what I want & what I like through it
Been watching porn very sparingly. Sometimes I do get that urge though, will use the log to try to identify triggers.
I learned, it doesn‘t have to be no porn.
I also can be control over porn.
I’m really enjoying using my imagination and don’t miss porn very much at all but if/when I watch it again I’ll definitely use sites like Make Love Not Porn instead of porn hub
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I haven’t watched porn in over a week at this point (maybe two). But I cant wait to enjoy myself and my imagination like the good le days..lol. and watch porn occasionally not every day or my usual routine every morning on my days off as soon as I woke up.
I’ve had a few porn activities. Porn isn’t a problem with me and they are a bit wasted on me
I don’t feel my porn is a problem. Other than hiding it from my wife, it doesn’t negativity effect my life and I enjoy watching it
I don’t feel porn is a problem, but I will start keeping a log
It’s been useful to try to be a bit more mindful about why I’m watching porn, and if there are better thins to do e.g. if I’m sad or stressed it might not make me feel better in the long term
It was mind-blowing to have the alternative of audio queues, I feel less pressured by how I should look like or last
Porn was relied upon just a little too much to get off on. Gotta find other ways. Mix it up.
I feel better about my porn habits
Boredom may be a trigger of mine. Boredom and horniness is the deadly mix I think
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Keeping the journal helps me put in perspective why I watch porn/masturbate. I’d like to be less reliant on it and this helps spur to seek out other things instead
I think it distracts me from what actually feels good when I masturbate and have sex, and pivots my attention to what sex “should” look and sound like from a dramatized porn perspective. I think less masturbation with porn and more following what feels good for my body will help me feel more connected and present during sex
I feel like I want to feel less shameful when I watch pork or view porn and maybe do it in a more natural and healthy way if I do
I’m stopping completely, never was a heavy watcher but I’m planning on stopping all together