Yes I’ve often thought over the years that energy put into porn would be better spent going out and meeting women. Imagine what you could accomplish
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It’s good to know that there can be a balance with porn. It is a low stakes way to have a good sexual experience without pressure
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I try to vary the type and subject when I do use porn.
Significant decrease
Maybe porn was more an escape. It is eye opening to keep track on where/when/why I watch porn to understand my habits better.
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I don’t feel guilty from watching it, but I don’t like knowing i won’t be able to get it up later on.
Agreed that sometimes it’s a stress reliever and I do feel guilty by proving to myself I can get hard by watching porn or creating scenarios in my head which only intensifies the negativity towards anything to do my penis.
I agree this made me feel better because watching podcasts and random people saying terible things about porn definitely can’t do any good since some one who watches growing up now all of a sudden I’ve been doing something with no direction for sometime is the worst thing ever!
Good! It was interesting to learn more in depth about why and in what situations I watch porn. First I wanted to simplify and don’t dig deep in why/where/what/how but after taking a step back and reflecting I found some interesting patterns.
I actually haven’t watched porn in the 10 days since I started using Mojo. The reason for this is I used porn to get an instant erection and finish in what a minute or two.
I do want to focus on performance anymore just pleasure and I felt the best way to do this was to start using my imagination to help boost my libido naturally, it’s worked with some great sexual experiences but it hasn’t been without its issues. Slowly I’ll get there but this is definitely helping.
I feel better about allowing myself healthy porn use
Yes. I will think about the reason I want to masturbate before I do it more.
And also consider whether I need to watch porn at all for this period of solo sex
yes, i’m going to be more analytical now and examine the reasons why i want to watch porn when i do
I realized I watch porn/masturbate sometimes out of habit or boredom but I don’t always feel like I need to. So I am going to pay more attention to why I am pulling up porn or choosing to masturbate.
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Don’t really feel any different, i am constantly on and off of porn/jerking off so i don’t know if it really makes a difference in my libido.
I’m still in the same place, but I have more information. I’m going to practice actioning it
I mainly used porn as an outlet for my anxiety towards real relationships/contact. Now that I’m much older I don’t really feel the need to use it all, and I’m practicing keeping my sexual moments strictly to with my partner rather than getting a quick hit from masturbating
Porn is usually a quick fix, for me. I want the destination, not the long journey
I use porn pretty much strictly for when I’m horny. Since this program I’ve started venturing into other options of how I can help myself when I’m horny
Consistency is the enemy of spontaneity…or so I like to tell myself, when really consistency is a healthy root to sustainable spontaneity. I fell off this program, but would like to rejoin