How do you feel now that you’ve completed your porn activities?

I don’t feel I have an issue with porn. I like mainstream slow intimate porn where no one seems to be exploited.

I think I should just quit watching

fill out the log every time that way I’m being very thoughtful about my consumption

It’s important to understand what you want and to communicate that to your partner and to use porn in a positive manner

I feel much less guilty about watching porn, on the rare occasions that I do. I’m trying not to beat myself up and I’m seeing how it can be used positively for personal sexual exploration.

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Ethical porn for the win! No more shame, just the joy of watching naked bodies

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I feel motivated to keep porn use in balance with other techniques to mix things up

I’ve found the audio stories helpful for mixing things up from my routine and has led to reactivating my imagination for getting off without anything but memories/ fantasies. That’s also made it easier to find “me time” as a new dad

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Made me aware of porn and how to manage it

Not really doing it as often

I’ve decided to be more conscious of WHY I’m waving porn.

I haven’t watched porn in a couple years. But I recently started listening to these erotic stories on mojo and those work just like porn. But since I am visualizing it as opposed to watching a video does that make it different than porn?

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I have found that if i watch stuff my partner loves and wants, the visualization of that turns me on. I can also watch it with her and get off in her excitement and reap the benefits. I use porn more for wax and waning which is really working for my issues.

Treating porn as means to try and last longer changes the paradigm for me. I’m not using it to quickly get off anymore. I’m using it explored how my body gets aroused and how to try and control that arousal.

I feel less bad about watching porn now - coming from a religious household, it was always frowned upon and watching porn to get off was always done secretly and quickly - resulting in finishing too quickly when the real deal came, it’s small progress but being aware of my own arousal from visuals allows me to self regulate by breathing deeper and being more in control

I’m taking much less of an all or nothing approach. It’s about meaningful consumption not mindless scrolling and watching

Feel pretty good! I don’t feel like a lecherous porn user or “addict”. I appreciate what mojo does to clarify porn stigmas