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🍆 Erection issues
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I’m 22. I have been seeing a girl for 3 months now and we’ve tried to have sex 3 times. Previous sex encounters I’ve had have all been under the influence of alcohol and I haven’t been able to perform properly. So with my new girl I assumed I would be fine cause I’d be sober. But no, first time trying I couldn’t get more than a semi. She took it awfully and thought I was revolted by her looks. It took so much convincing to get her back and I explained I was having performance issues. Then we’ve tried two times since and same issues however the last time I did manage to get inside her for maybe 30 seconds but then I got soft and slipped out again.

I need help before I lose this girl.

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Definitely take it back dude. Just do fingering or oral from her until your comfortable with her. Same shit happened to me, its not the end of the workd but it is frustrating. If she really cares about u she will understand and not pressure u

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Focus on what turns you on first - avoid porn. Learn what you enjoy sensation wise and focus on that during sex too - not always about pleasing partner. That comes when you’re pleased and feeling it

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