Help for early ejaculation

🌋 Early climax
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I find it hard to last long once I penetrated. I believe I get aroused too early, I even cum once before even penetrating because cuddling and movememts were too good, it only gets worse, after cumming and then penetrating, I cum again in less than 2 min. This makes her not satisfied, so I am trying mojo and this is my first day. No sure if it would really help!

I tried the 10min without cuming, but I also used sex doll bcz I know that i can last the full 10 min masturbating, but I am looking for the real sex-like feeling bcz it makes me cum quickly. In this try I stopped about 3 times so that I do not cum, yet I couldnt stop myself the sex doll (first time to try) was too good compared to masturbation. I ended up cuming in about 2min40 sec.

I am hopin to try again in 2 days and lasting longer or being able to stop myself as much time as I need but not to cum. I am open for any ideas to help.

P.S. I did not try much sex in my life, so I am kinda new and I am also in my early 30s. I guess I mostly masturbated and had the goal of cuming maybe thats why i get aroused so fast, but when it comes to reality i need not to do that, so trying to rewire my brain cells

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I kept trying with the doll, my second try was similar time and i couldnt stop. My third try just finished without cumming, but i stoped many times, but I really feel good i was able to do it.

I did 3 different things in my last successful attempt:

  1. I kept focusing on not being carried away by my feelings, meaning I focused on not enjoying it, because when I do it in reality, when she is about to cum I can just let myself feel it and I will cum right away lol This helped me not get carried away by the feelings.

  2. I did it standing, I don’t know why I decided that, but I am glad I did because this leads to the following point which I think is key for me not to cum

  3. When I sleep over her, or when I have sex lying down, I dunno about other people, but for me, my balls get pulled up from their place. And because I was standing, this didn’t happen at least in the first minute. I noticed it and I think at some point I felt they were getting up, so I put my hand to keep them in their place, this helped me!!! I kept going on, and even faster and slower many times, and I was able to simply stop myself when I felt my body was getting too much and might lose control.

Conclusion: I believe point #1 is essential, not to feel nor focus on my pleasure nor my feelings, kinda weird but works pretty well, because you can decide when to just let urself feel it then u gonna just cum right away and enjoy it. I will keep repeating this exercise, to make sure I master this so that in reality (feels like the test lol) I would be used to controlling myself especially there will be feelings all over the place because I really like this girl, plus she is really hot in bed. I even hope she can be my future partner! But I am essentially doing this for me in case we dont work anyway, she is travelling for a while and who knows. Things may happen. #2 I also will make sure i use my hand to prevent my balls from getting up where i really get very sensitive.

Moving forward - I feel I am rediscovering myself lol - I will try more similar poses to reality like while on bed not standing and see how my body reacts, and my self next goal would be to do it 10min without feeling the need to stop - hopefully

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I also bought a realistic toy to practice on as well I’m waiting on getting delivered. I was hesitant because of the bad stigmas, women give them, but they got everything from realistic to anime tentacles, so :man_shrugging:t6:

I feel like practicing on the real thing will lower my performance anxiety and is a better gauge for endurance. I can use my hand fine, but I can’t last more than 3 mins when I’m inside of the real thing, and I think this is the best way to practice.

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Try fuck from the side instead of doggy/missionary. Also just eat her out first and make her cum until you get this sorted it will settle her down a little

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why would women give it a bad stigma? I think if u r with someone, she would appreciate u r doing that just for pleasing her

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Hi I’m sort of in the same situation as you. I ejaculate way too fast and feel that I’ve messed up and my partner may be upset. But I’m liking this app and it seems pretty good. I do think the more I’m with my partner the better I’m getting :joy:. But keep positive.