So it’s been a little over a year since I’ve had sex.
I have no problem talking to women or going on dates. But I’m always nervous to take anything to the bedroom.
I’ve always been in my head during sex but managed fine until a bad breakup in 2022. I took blue chew to help with ED and when I’m getting a blowjob I’m all good. But with actual penetration, I still get nervous and my erection will go away before I can finish.
Sometimes I’ll finish too early cause I’m worried I won’t cum at all, even with blue chew.
Hasn’t made sex all that fun.
I have managed to get off with a handjob recently but still nervous to go for actual sex.
Anyone else have similar experiences and/or advice on the matter? Would like to have a healthy, fun sex life again.
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Bro same thing with me like I can get hard from head etc but before penetration I kinda just get in my own head and then feel like I’m losing but tbh it’s getting much better like fully hard naturally and multiple times during the night cause I try just focus on enjoying the moment rather than am I gonna get hard or not type thing and like enjoying the pleasure and feelings like the soft penis pleasuring helped a lot I think but we still on the journey but I’d just say stick to it
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Same here.
I’ve found that my relationship with porn and my hand likely has caused part of my issue….
8 todays without either and I’ve seen baby steps….
Good luck!
I think I’m stuck in the same situation as you. Everything is fine during BJ and stuff but when it comes to actual sex everything changes. I think my problem can be related due to porn and masturbation addiction and I’m trying right now to stay away from both to see if is there any changes in the future (hopefully).
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