So I’ve been staying harder longer which is great! But I’m not getting to orgasm. I feel like I’m focused, in the moment, and feeling the sensations but… trying to stay positive about it but…
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I have the same issue and a bit lost in where to start to resolve it. I can admit that I do have a problem with overconsumption of porno which doesn’t help. I do focus on the sensations and all during act but consciously remind myself that the orgasms on porn are better because i can at least have some 
Any advice?
It seems like there are more and more posts about this lately, as opposed to PE.
I have been off porn for over two years, but I still think years and years of usage have contributed to this with me and my girlfriend. She is super supportive about it, but sometimes in order for me to have an orgasm, I have to think about porn, even though I have not touched it for almost 2.5 years. And, as mentioned above, Sometimes it doesn’t even happen.
Would love to have more thoughts on this if possible. Doing Mojo daily and I know it helps, especially with the physical.
I have been googling things about ways to become more aroused, as I’m using them. Also trying to release estate present and focus on the breath during sex.
Man, I’m glad there’s a community for this. Women think it’s so easy for us to get a boner and to finish. It’s a science sometimes.
Thanks for the post!
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Cannot edit post. Meant to say “really stay present”, not “real estate present”
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Yeah it’s crazy but I think I have to think about porn to finish while I’m having sex.
But one thing I’m noticing more now is I’m starting to replace thoughts of porn stars with my actual gf. To me, this is still an artifact of “spectatoring” but it’s still better than consuming porn.
I think eventually my mind will get used to it and slowly stop spectatoring but you gotta just give it time.