I’ve been able to get on top of getting hard and staying hard , through a combination of mindful meditations offered here and other useful tools, and also cialis tablets (mainly to boost my confidence or “plan B” so to speak) so that’s not an issue - but delayed ejaculation is. When I’m inside her I can just keep going but can’t seem to get there I have to jerk myself off to cum (she’s been super supportive letting me cum on her and BJing me and licking my balls etc). But I want to be able to finish inside her! I am pretty sure it’s because if being single for a long time before my current girlfriend and mostly dry masturbation. Any advice from anyone? Thanks 
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Had a similar experience… best thing is stop the pills and do the touching exercises on here and guided masturbation it feels weird at first but it does make a difference
Also I’m guessing like most of us on here when you masturbate it’s hard and vigorous try a different technique and don’t choke the chicken to cum…. It will take some time but definitely worth the rewards!
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Well… yep… I’m on the same journey. I’ve gone from PE to ED, and now I’m at DE…
To be honest … as we speak……I’m not that unhappy with things……she likes a long session… but when I’m in “porn star mode” as I call it… I can’t cum without the “5 knuckle shuffle”
I also use Cialis at a low level… to help my confidence… (plan B, I suppose) I wonder if there is something about that…
At the moment I’m enjoying this issue… but I agree we are all different and I do think my view may change…
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