First of all, let me say that Mojo has done wonders for me. I am horny all the time and I’ve been performing the best of my life and I am in my mid 50s. What I do to end to struggle w is DE. It seems to be in the big minority compared with those of you the struggle with PE. which, I can honestly say I would give my left nut to have that problem.
The good news is my wife always finishes before me, which is great for her and she is incredibly satisfied. Sometimes I have to pull out and finish myself off.
Does anybody struggle with this in the community? If so, I would love some idea ideas. I basically eliminated porn in the last 2.5 years and I think that’s why the sex is so good, but I’d love to finish early sometimes!
Thanks in advance for the help!
I feel the same. What Ive read and trying to get in my mind is to not think of the end as an objective and focus in the journey and staying out your head.
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Will she finish you??
Handy or oral after you pull out?? Some women won’t touch it after it’s been inside…
Thanks for the thought. I guess the problem is that I had a hard time finishing.
I’m wondering about this, too. I’ve incorporated fantasizing at the moment I want to cum, fantasizing about cumming, the explosiveness, being naughty and uninhibited. Fantasizing i found helped get me there. But I’m not out of the woods.
I still rely on my hand to even get to that edge of about to cum. But in order to feel it while inside (and some women love feeling it explode inside them, too, even with a condom to feel the contractions), I’ll use my hand at such a point where I’m ready to cum (play and intercourse would have been occurring prior to this point, just that for now it is soevifimy hand that will actually get me to that edge) and then once I’ve gotten myself to that edge I’ll thrust myself inside and it’ll feel quite nice. The other option is in getting myself to that edge and then handing myself off to my partner to give me oral and/or hand job to finally finish me off, which is also nice.
It’s annoying that I need to integrate my hand at all to get to that edge, but I’m happy to have found that work around in still allowing my partner to feel part of my climax.
I’m hoping the more comfortable in get with focusing on the sexy moment with my partner and the sensations and pleasure, the more I’ll cut out distracting thoughts like “this is taking too long” or “my partner is getting tired” which knocks me off course and delays me further from finishing.
Hope this helps.
Sorry for typos. Meant to say it is specifically* my* hand that will get me to my edge right before cumming.
@mojo please correct this bug and allow is to edit our comments while using the app.