So I’ve had ed issues on and off for a number of years. More recently my issue is that I get hard and then just as we’re about to do the deed, I go soft. I know it’s psychological and just internal panic so I need to learn to calm my head, I’m just interested to know if and how people dealt with this.
Thanks.
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It seems your inner critic is probably reminding you of the last time this happened so you’re convinced you’re doomed to repeat it. I think progressing with the mojo inner critic exercises might help. Don’t be disheartened if it takes time.
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Happened just about my whole life. I’ve had successes recently but it’s still in the back of my head. Keep going with the exercises. And make sure when that happens it’s not the end of your time together. Try something else or at least snuggle so your brain doesn’t associate that with just negativity, or it’ll happen again and again.