I was just wondering if there was anything you’d guys suggest with oral. Whenever I receive oral I can’t get out of my head. I’m fine with sex but I think it’s cause I’m not in control and sorta not doing anything my mind wanders. I’m doing all the exercises but would sensate and maybe meditation be the best to help me stay in the present and focus on the sensations?
I have the exact same issue. I love getting oral and I love when someone is willing to get so close… but I never get hard from it. I start panicking and feel like crap because it seems as if I’m not enjoying it (although I am) and it starts this vicious cycle of NOTHING working
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Hi, I have a similar thing. When a woman gives me oral I may be hard before but during I soften. This isn’t always but I think it’s linked to me feeling the need to express my pleasure (noise) takes me into my mind and away from my cock. I think focussing on the pleasure may help. I’ll report back 