Hi guys. I have no idea what’s wrong with me and I would love any help this amazing community can give me. Thank you so much in advance.
I’m a 21 year old fairly attractive, athletic, healthy man, but I’ve had pretty major erection issues my whole life. It wasn’t so bad my first few sexual experiences, stayed hard for at least a couple minutes but went soft after some sex.
I’ve seen a urologist and endocrinologist but they both cleared me and said it was in my head. I believe them too I do think that I am physically fine as I have no issues with masturbation or handjob and oral sex.
But whenever it’s time to have sex I am suddenly no longer horny and just lose my erection. I’m not an anxious or problematic person so this is the first time I’ve ever had to deal with something like this. It’s tearing me apart and I would love to have sex with my gf. She doesn’t understand at all. Thank you for any advice or anything you can give me.
Stop watching porn. It’s re-wiring your brain to only respond to pixels on a screen. I was there before, till I decided I needed to stop…and it helped. Also, stop using your hands. Let your 
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. Youre right. Its all in your head. Nothing wrong with you.
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It sounds like performance anxiety tbh
You are not alone at all. I’m newly married with the same issue. But I’ve seen progress.