Yes anxiousness causes distraction and kills the moment
Yes, I get worried that I won’t be able to get/maintain an erection and it takes up all of my focus to the extent that it becomes self-fulfilling.
Yep, particularly in new situatuon
Yep, particularly in new situations with new partners
Yes, I’m afraid I can’t get hard. Because it has happened many times before.
Anxiety about not being able to perform and disappointing my partner. That is followed by guilt for not being adequate enough to satisfy them
No not really
Yes, I get worried that I won’t be able to get/maintain an erection and it takes up all of my focus to the extent that it becomes self-fulfilling.
Yes. I get anxious because I get worried that I’m not going to perform and be able to please my partner. It makes me lose myself in the moment and suddenly I can only think about how I won’t be able to get it up and I just lose my erection.
I start to think ‘this might not work’, then I worry and then it’s all over
It just happens
I think I experience more anxiety during sex with someone I care about impressing ie. a partner over random hookup situations. I’m in a new relationship and really feeling the strain of this at the moment, really don’t want my partner to think it’s them boring me or similar, driving me crazy trying to work through it.
It’s weird before we start actually having sex I feel fine but then it feels like there’s a shift and
Yes I can’t get it up
Yes, a complex type of anxiety, which includes body shame and worries about repeating patterns of not being able to get an erection.
Yes, it becomes reoccurring cycle because I am worried it will happen again.
I’ll be fine during foreplay, getting very aroused. But once I reach for a condom, the anxiety sets in and that’s when I go soft.
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Yes, I often get a voice in my head staying “what if it goes soft” and I lose my erection "
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With a new partner, and especially now I’ve had issues
Will its does happened most of the time but. The researchers found that many of the women did make noise but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm. Instead, 66% said that they moaned to speed up their partner’s climax, and 87% stated that they vocalized during sex to boost his self-esteem. Will as men’s are the fuck up bitch.