My ex spouse was very critical of my sexual performance; my size, my ability to get hard immediately and my stamina. She started having affairs and we divorced. Immediately after I started dating again and had no sexual concerns. I went through a bit of a dry spell and all the prior trauma and criticism from my ex came back and has flooded my mind, leaving me with anxiety and ED. There is like this vicious cycle; I am afraid to date for fear of disappointment, but I know I need to date again. It’s been 3 years and I fear the longer it goes the less likely I will ever date again. Any thoughts?
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You are most than your penis size, I’m a grower as well and I hate how small it is when it’s flaccid. It took me a long time to accept my size and tell myself when you’re hard you’re not that small. A person who truly loves you won’t make you feel bad due to all those factors you listed. How comfortable are you with your penis size.
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Thank you! I had been comfortable with my size but that dissipated with her comments
That’s good you’re comfortable with your size. Forget her comments thru don’t define you
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@proposed-rose-angelfish - I agree with you 100% however putting that out of my head is easier said than done
Yea that’s the hard part…you got this bro
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