Hey lads, fairly new on here but seems really supportive. Would have issues with going soft during sex previously but they’d be after a night of drinking so I put it down to that. I’ve been seeing a girl for a few months and when I know we’re going to have sex find myself thinking the night before sex about what if I go soft. When we get down to it like clockwork I go soft, it’s like an inflatable that just randomly deflates. She’s supportive of it but I’m finding it tough especially as I’m in early 20’s and have in my head the idea that it shouldn’t be happening to me. Thanks for listening!
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Stick with the program here as most of us are in the same situation. You’ll learn to stay out of your head and you’ll learn to recognise your inner critic and how to silence it. You’ll learn to relax and just focus on the pleasure again.
It’s all mental so you’ll get your mojo back.
Keep your gf in the loop and be thankful she’s supportive. Do some of the ecercises with her and talk to her about what you’re doing and why. Step by step you’ll get there.
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Thanks, feels good to be able to talk to others going through it and hearing what works
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Same situation here. I’m 53. Fit male also have type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure. I’ve been working out like a madman, have started testosterone replacement (pellets) 7 months ago. And …
Polyamorous with no shortage of opportunities for willing female partners.
Just SUCKs to be naked with. Woman and you said “like and inflatable” I have this half hard cock being played with by a super cute woman and I just lie there thinking why can’t I fuck This should be amazing I should be on top pounding and thrusting and sweating and. And. And.
So I’m just in my 7day trial and hopeful that perhaps I’m just recognizing now (better later than never) that I’m literally getting in my own way.
So keep up the training sessions and let’s check in. I’m hopeful because I’m seeing some statements in the training videos that make me think “hey that’s me”
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Very similar here mate. Trying to silence that inner voice is a real problem. Can’t seem to do a quickie. Putting too much pressure on yourself is a vicious cycle. Hoping this app works. Good luck.
Same here. I can stay constantly stiff during foreplay but deflated when I try to penetrate. It psychological and not a physical problem. I’m really hoping mojo can help me out.