I’m 52. Dating at 32 year old woman. She is incredibly sexual and it turns me on so much but can’t keep an erection and sometimes can’t finish during sex.
I know I’m in my head, worried about satisfying a much younger woman, fearful I will lose my erection and worried she will leave me for a man that can stay rock hard.
She always cums but only when I use my fingers while she uses her hand.
I’m mortified, embarrassed and worried. Anyone else have this issue? What do you do to stop this from happening???
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I hear that and I am in a similar situation. 51 and married to a 38 year old. This happens with me and my wife a lot during sex and we both enjoy it. Remember to always focus on the pleasure and not worry so much about performance and if this is a good relationship, she isn’t going to leave you. As you get more and more comfortable with each other you will start to last longer but remember as we get into our 50s sex is not always gonna be perfect and that is OK.
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Get some pills to help get your confidence back. And then work on your mental state, as it’s more than likely you being in your head too much. DE is the better problem to have than PE or ED, as women don’t mind you going for longer, however they do want you to eventually cum, as they may think something is wrong with them if you can’t cum. But yeah just try and focus on the sexual thoughts that excite you and relax as much as possible, because as I said they don’t mind it too much 