Can only masturbate to one kind of porn

🕹️ Porn and masturbation
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Hey guys, it’s my first time posting on here and i’m feeling a little nervous.

For pretty much as long as I can remember, i’ve mostly/only been aroused by certain types of girls. It’s something that i’ve always wanted to change about myself as I really don’t think this fetish leads to a healthy relationship in real life, and I know in my heart it’s something I genuinely don’t want.

But I genuinely just don’t know what to do. It’s affecting my relationships, because every single time a date leads to sex I struggle to get it up. I’m still young but i’m scared to go out dating again until I sort out this issue. I’ve tried going off the type of porn that I can masturbate to, but after a while I get sexually frustrated as I haven’t been able to get hard to anything else and usually give up. I’ve even tried a bit of aversion therapy.

I was wondering if anyone had gone through something like this, and if they had any advice on how they handled it? Anything would be so so appreciated, thanks so much.

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Cut porn out and see what happens I say. Also, I am 44 and I have found that throughout life there are certain types that I find hot that may not have been my type 20 years ago. So your preferences can definitely broaden.

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Hey, hopefully someone more experienced can help more than me. But first off, don’t worry about asking for help or advice. It sounds very limiting only getting arousal from a certain fetish. I guess you might want to seek talking therapies and paying for help.
You could try listening to erotic stories or reading erotic stories, they are designed more to get your brain thinking of the experience rather than the visual que of a specific look ?

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ditch the porn