I have never had a full erection with a partner. It feels like a mix of spectating and desensitization potentially due to habits around porn.
After spending a night with a partner, my balls hurt? Likely because I was aroused but unable to release?
I am trying not to ejaculate using porn anymore and also limiting it in general with the hopes of successfully having an erection in the near future with a partner.
Any advice? I also have tried taking cialis 20mg and it didn’t help.
“Trying not to ejaculate with porn” and “limiting porn” imply that you’re still using porn. I was addicted to porn from 7th grade to my sophomore year of college and, like you, I couldn’t get hard with a partner for that entire period of time. You have to cut out porn entirely. Your brain is overloaded by it.
Yeah, the porn is a big part of it man. I’ve been trying to cut it out, and it’s difficult to do but I’m finding that the longer I go without porn the more consistently I can stay present when it comes time to do the deed.