My girl wants all these crazy things done to her from past experiences, and for 5 years has never showed or explain or progressed anything like that with me. How the fuck am I supposed to go about it? Like if I cuff her thighs and wrist together, what? Do I just fuck her or something. Like I don’t know what the whole idea is behind D/s but she wants that and I have never had, experienced, or tried that, and she just wants me to do it like I know what the hell im doing. But I really thought sex was about loving one another and the moment building together. So I don’t know, any words of advice?
Get some hand cuffs, butt plug, massage oil or anything to give her a body massage. and blind fold (blind fold can happen next time for something new)
One night bring a bottle of red wine home and crack it open. Don’t get too drunk. Get a little buzz. Even if you hate red wine just push through it gives a nice buzz. Cook dinner together or something and start giving her affection.
Take her to bed and give her a massage. During the massage when she is laying naked on her stomach get out the cuffs grab her arms and cuff her. Hands behind her back Then proceed to tease her. Just be in the moment. Use what I’ve said and just make your own scenario that suits you.
Don’t fuck her too quickly. Put your dick almost in then pull away. Eat her pussy first but slowly.
If you have never used a butt plug be careful. Make sure she is dripping wet begging for dick before you insert it. SLOWLY.
Control the situation she will love it
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I seriously appreciate the info man for reals
All good mate. I forgot to mention to kiss her back during the massage. After you finish the lower back start back up at the shoulders and kiss her back as you go down again
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