Baby steps, happy ending!

Long one with a happy ending! Recently single from LTR.
Habitual solo sex with porn. Have not come in the presence of a partner in years. Through this app, I now suspect a mild porn addiction, too used to my own grip, waaaay into my own head and erection issues. But usually can finish myself. Regularly use Cialis and silicone restrictor ring.
New partner!! (3mo) wonderful woman. I was up front about my Ed issue. (Not the porn….) she totally understood and has experienced ED before…
As a result of this app: I’ve quit porn & fapping (7 days so far!!) I spent a wonderful weekend with her.
She goes down on me regularly as I do to her as well. She’s multi orgasmic. I love to make her come. Fingers, tongue, toys- she’s into it. Been active 3 months with her and I haven’t finished once… I lose it when I go to enter or while she’s going down or stroking me. In the last week we’ve had a couple off ā€˜almosts!!’ Then I start to wilt. I’m in my head again.
Last night I think I came a bit during oral. But- I was hard the whole time she was pleasuring me. Then an hour after I woke up with a more than semi….
This morning before I had to leave, fooling around, she was able to get me off with her hand!!! I was squirming and felt something on my shoulder and chest- I say I think I came. She said ā€œit hit my cheek!ā€
Not earth shattering, but hopefully-the first of many orgasms with her!!! She was super pumped and so am I.
Bottom line for me- quitting porn & fapping, learning techniques within my head and breathing from this app have given me hope!
(1/2 20mg Cialis last nightand no ring this morning!!! I was able to simply enjoy her touch and the fact that she just wants to make me feel good!
Sorry if in tmi, but I thought it may help some….
Cheers fellas.

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Congratulations man! Glad to hear the progress!!

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This is really good to hear…… shows it’s not an overnight fix but very fixable…
Keep going lad…….it’s helpful for us in this community to hear success…
It’s only gonna get better………

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Yea stopping porn and fapping really had helped. I’m about two weeks and it’s helped a ton.

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