Hey everyone, I’ve been with my gf for almost 3 years now. And I have never been able to orgasm during sex with her. It’s become a contributing factor to the current bad state of our relationship, and is one of the many things I need to work on. Has anyone had success recovering from delayed ejaculation using this app?
I’m also interested to hear any success stories on this issue
There can be so many individual factors. But the Mojo app works if you apply yourself.
Do you know some people actively try to have sex without ever ejaculating, influenced by ideas found in Tantra? The more you and your partner can relax about your sexual encounters not necessarily ending with ejaculation, the more fun you both can start to have in your sex life again.
If there’s relationship struggles, it can also affect the downward spiral of feeling confident and comfortable during intimate encounters, potentially affecting the downward spiral in sex further.
Remove expectation of cumming. Strengthen your imagination to be able to vividly visualize release, it can help you get there. If penetration doesn’t get you there, both of you watch each other masturbate. You have to get comfortable to be vulnerable and cum in front of your partner. Eventually you can graduate to getting yourself to that edge and inserting for the last thrust(s) to get you over that edge. It’s a process of getting comfortable. But first, you have to get confident and comfortable being vulnerable with your partner. Cumming is making yourself vulnerable. Fight or flight has other ideas. It’s about learning to relax.
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Great advice all round, I think we’d tried the no expectation to cum during sex for a while, and it’s still an issue. However you’re right there’s a lot of other relationship issues at play that I need to work on more as well.
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I have never tried visualisation before, that’s a great shout
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I have a death grip among other things….
It’s been years since I’ve finished anywhere other than with my own hand….
I’m working on it. Added good lube(Woo), gave up porn and solo (90% or so…) and working the app.
I’m kinda small so I don’t get as much friction from a pussy…. I take so long that she actually falls asleep during a handy. Tho- to her credit, she’s usually had 3-4 Os of her own from
Oral or my hands…. Maybe a toy also….
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