Anyone else nervous about upcoming hook up?

I’m happy that the guys I hook up with we stay in contact for a few years. We don’t meet all the time but it’s good to know they like to keep me in their contacts and hit me up. There’s one guy who meets a lot of of my very kinky fantasies. Our first time hooking up my dick was very hard because of all the new things I was able to try with him.I could tell he loved my rock hard dick our first time. We tried to fuck, but it didn’t quite work since he doesn’t like to use lube and my dick was sort of making it inside of him. He jerked me off and I was able to come. It was overall a very hot time. Second time around I tried to fuck him wasn’t so well. We still did a lot of other fun stuff. Now this time around he is asking me via text where do I want to com? I like these conversations, but they start making me feel nervous about them wanting me to fuck and cum inside them. I really want to do this because I really like this guy’s butt. I get nervous that I’m gonna disappoint them, especially if they have to prep and douche, but then nothing happens. I’m really good with my tongue game and can give someone’s ass a great experience without my dick. But I like to know that I’m able to use my dick or something masculine like topping.

I plan to tell him the day before we meet up that I may get nervous and have a hard time getting a boner. But I still want to try fucking him. I’m hoping that by sending this that he understands where I’m coming from and it isn’t a total letdown if I’m not able to get hard. I also preparing by taking meditation classes on Mojo , practicing not spectating myself, and going to take a little help from my dick pills for an extra confidence boost.

It will feel good to hear anyone else how you are feeling about upcoming sex sessions. Any thoughts you’re having about it and what you’re trying to do to prepare for it?

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