Long story short, Iāve been working through MOJO but havenāt had much opportunity to put it to the test. The last opportunity I did have a few months back, didnāt go as desired.
This Friday, based on the conversation leading up to it with a new partner, that will change. So I want to know what practices people take in the days leading up to sex?
My struggle is getting hard. Once Iām there Iām generally fine. But I never know what to do in the days leading up to it.
I totally know the feeling. Whenever I donāt have sex for a while I get all in my head and start worrying whether Iāll be able to get hard. Whenever that happens I try to lower my expectations. It may not work and thatās fine. Thatās not a reason for me to beat myslef up about it.
I also mentally prepare for how I could explain it to the person Iām with. Like āhey, I can get anxious about sex sometimes so it may not happenā. Funnily enough, more times than not, it then works fine.
The meditation also helps.