I like porn. I enjoy it, i like thinking about it, seeing it, admiring pornographic pictures and posts, or as a hobby writing pornographic stories.
It’s long been something i’ve enjoyed since my teen years due to being in the closet and in an area where it wasn’t particularly easy to connect with other gays guys whether just as friends or more. Porn became a way to connect with that area of my life.
I’m now in a committed relationship with a guy that doesn’t mind my lack of erections. Despite that though i still feel drawn to porn, to consume it and engage with it. It feels like a hobby at this point.
Recently i tried going cold turkey. Stayed away from porn for about a month and found a change in my libido. But since then i’ve fallen back into it again. I know that the solution is probably to try and stay away full stop but there’s a part of me that want’s to continue with it because I enjoy and appreciate porn.
Apologies if any of that was unclear. But i guess i’m just wondering is there a way to have a fulfilling sex life and porn? Or is it one or the other? Or have i just wrecked my own sexual responses?
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To me it sounds, like myself, mabye you have a bit of a porn addiction. I found staying away from it completely worked best for me, you just have to be strict with yourself and find other things to fill your time.
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Not sure……
I’ve found I have an unhealthy relationship with porn. I also have death grip, and I get PED pretty bad. I get hard as nails during foreplay, then Mr Softee shows up when it’s time to do the deed.
I’ve been here for 6 weeks and gave up 90% porn and solo along with the mental gymnastics from this app and the physical exercises shown here, I’ve seen a mild improvement in erections.
I’m very visual as well! I’ve resorted to slowing down to be more in the present! I focus on her and the scene. Her sexy legs and feet. Her perfect nipples. I focus on The fact that she pays so much attention to herself and primping, polishing and waxing for herself and for me! The fact that I’ve got a beautiful woman wanting to suck me and eventually f the hell outta me and make me cum hard.
I have read on this app I think that cold turkey is often an ineffective way to quit.
I have heard about a book called easypeasy which is available by searching “easypeasy method pdf”. It is ana adaptation of a book on quitting cigarettes which is supposed to be extrememy effective. I’m reading it myself atm
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Complete cold turkey helped me. It’s difficult.