Hi all, first time posting here.
I have had erection issues with partnered sex my whole life and just in the last few years it has gotten much worse. When I was younger I would easily get hard during foreplay but sometime would lose it getting a condom on. But lately I get such bad anxiety leading up to sex that it’s like I just dipped in a cold plunge…like everything down there is shrivelled up and half the size I normally am which makes me feel embarrassed and even more anxiety. At that point I don’t even want my wife to see or touch me because I feel so uncomfortable and embarrassed and I just spiral out of control to having near panic attacks. I never talked about any of this with her untill just recently and I definitely feel better and it’s not happening as often or as bad but still the fear of it happening is there everyday. And when I’m not hard with her I can feel her energy change and her disappointment then it’s like impossible to recover from that point and I feel like such a failure.
So just wondering if there are others in a similar situation and did this app help at all? Or some tips on things that have helped.
Thanks guys
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