I just wanted to share a small victory I had tonight, I was doing the thing where you go hard soft hard soft etc, and I was successful for one round, but the 2nd round, I thought about a negative sex experience I had and the thought of that distracted me from getting it up again. So I did some soft penis pleasuring instead and I felt proud that I had the ability to forgive myself about going soft. And I also realized that the negative experiences that I was thinking of had nothing to do with my dick, but rather feeling insecure about the girls I was with.
That’s all. I just felt like that was a shift for me.