What I am struggling with when having sex with my partner (and doing the different exercises on the app) is maintaining the firmness of my erection, it can sometimes be really hard, and other times it’s 70-80% hard.
I am 29, fit, healthy (also a type 1 diabetic), don’t smoke or any of that stuff. Stopped watching porn months ago (will watch the odd video here and there), have sex with my partner 1-3 times a week, both of us are able to cum, but I cannot seem to stay hard when she is ontop.
There is always a desire to have sex on my end, so I don’t think my libido isn’t flatlining, but sometimes my erection isn’t fully there or it can just fade away, especially when ever my partner is on top. My partner is extremely supportive, but I can see it’s impacting her confidence, which in turn upsets me.
I’ve been using mojo for about 4 months now (daily - doing kegals daily, and a mix of exercises and meditation) and haven’t seen much of an impact, so I’m thinking it’s my mind that’s the issue.
Does anyone have experience in erections disappearing, or not being firm enough, particularly when you change sex position?