I’m in a relationship with my partner of 4 years. I’ve struggled with PE a lot of my adult sex life, however, started using MOJO consistently 2 months ago.
I made some really good progress - our communication is now very open about my PE and sex and I was able to last a lot longer (mainly second round) and my sex life really re-ignited while going away on holiday. We’d keep the each other horny after I cum fairly quickly the first time & then have some great, long sex afterwards - allowing us explore and try lots of new things.
We’re now back at our pretty stressful busy jobs, so our time is limited & fell out of this habit of open communication during and around sex because we don’t have that same space and separation. We then don’t feel we can then become more sexual and try things we want to. The connectivity has slightly faded because of this & i feel more pressure now to perform to so my early climax has got slightly worse again.
A few questions for the early climax community:
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I feel a bit despondent - How do I get back to this place we were in? Does one ever fully conquer this or is it something flares up here and there dependent on life/environment/mental health?
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Is being able to last a lot longer & having great, long sex second round just covering up the PE issue (first round has improved just not where I want it to be)? sometimes my partner feels it’s quite mechanical & un-sexy getting first round out the way to then carry on afterwards - I do understand this but is this not about how you frame it?
PE is a real fucker !