Although part of my issues stem from a lower back that is close to a 60 year olds and Iām only 37. Iāve come to realize the other part is mental. Iāve gone soft on her enough times in the last year, which makes her get super disappointed and then she practically scolds me each time. Now Iām at the point where Iām worried itāll happen and sheāll get mad, so then of course it does. Weāve been together 21 years and unfortunately she couldnāt be less supportive when I need her the most. I should note we have great sex 70%-80% of the time. But the 20% hurts. And not in a fun way.
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Man thatās tough.
I was marketed to āFrosty the Snow wifeā also. To the point I wouldnāt want to start anything because I didnāt want to let her or myself down. She thought it was because she didnāt look like she did 25 yrs ago. Couldnāt understand when I told her otherwise. I wish I found this app a decade ago.
Sheās gone and Iām with a wonderful supportive woman now.
I wish I had more positive advice.
Maybe involve her in this app?
Good luck man!!
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Involving her until the app is a good call. Clear communication is the best solution here, and involving her in these exercises is a good place to start. Best of luck
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Maybe take her to your Urologist so he can explain? That itās not her?
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Thanks for the support! Iāll do my best to involve her in this app as much as possible. 
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I know itās difficult, my wife would get frustrated with me too when Iād finish too early and be mad and wouldnāt let me try to do anything else for her. That just piles the pressure on and creates more stress, which makes it more likely to happen again. Try some of the meditation exercises, those helped me get out of my head. Also talk to her and tell her itās not her fault, and that youāre trying to work on it. Itās best to have low pressure situations and keep trying. Good luck!