last night I saw a girl. During foreplay my penis did not get more than half as hard as it does when I’m by myself. I felt disappointed and embarrassed in my performance as she wanted to have sex but I couldn’t provide this.
In the morning though when we were just chilling out my penis was as hard as it can possibility be. Why does this happen? Why can’t I get hard when it matters? It’s so frustrating as I know I’m attracted this this girl but can’t satisfy me or her
You’re in your head or stressed or something possibly.
Also I’m the morning when you were hard, I hope you took that opportunity to try again. Also worth noting that testosterone is highest in the morning. The best time to have sex for men is actually right after waking up.
I know it’s cos I’m in my head, im just struggling once I’m in the situation or seperate from that. In the morning we did stuff but we didn’t have intercourse which is the main problem. Partly because she didn’t want to, but I almost felt a relief there cos I was nervous after the night before