I have tried to have sex multiple times now and 90% of the time I have failed to get hard. it’s hard to understand as I will be keen and getting into it but my dick is asleep. I enjoy all the touching and the sexual advances that happen from these interactions, and can get hard on my own no worries. It gotten to the point where I avoid these interactions or the possibility of them for the mentioned issues. I always feel like I’m alone in this, as all my mates and friends seem to go out and get with chicks no worries and they don’t understand. I also find that my sex drive is like a roller coaster, for months I will barely be horny enough to get hard and then there will be months where I’m constantly horny. I don’t know 1 millions problems and 1 app to try to solve them, I hope someone can relate or has advice on what I can do either medically like go see if I have low testosterone or something, or even pills that can increase your sex drive. Either talk me into it or out of it. Sorry for rambling.
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I totally relate bro it’s like my dick just has no desire to get hard as much as I want to it’s not even about performance anxiety anymore it’s just like an inability to react to sex like I used to I can get hard on my own and wake up with boners but my dick just doesn’t stay hard during sex anymore it’s tough
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I have the same issue, I have an appointment booked this Thursday, blood test can test for testosterone levels, I don’t always wake up hard it happens like twice a week. My girlfriend says let’s not make an issue out of it, but it is becoming an issue for me.